Eight Common lies people tell about sex before marriage...Everyone is doing it

NG Devotionals
''Ten great reasons why you should say no to sex before marriage” written by Jean Garland;  quoted by Mike Anyanwaokoro

Eight common lies people might tell you about sex before marriage 

Lie 1: Sex will bring us closer
 answer: it won't

Lie2: “Sex will make our relationship better”
answer: no, sex will become the center of our relationship and push everything else out

Lie3:" If you really love me, you would do it”
Answer: If you really loved me, you would not ask but wait. Do you not respect me?

Lie4:" Just this once”
Answer: No one wants sex “Just once”, it is addictive

Lie 5:" I want to give you something to remember me by”.
Answer: Yes, Maybe AIDS or a baby….

Lie 6:" If you do not have sex with me, I will find someone who will.
Answer: I hope you two have a nice time

Lie 7: “Everyone is doing it"
 Answer: that is not true. There are many faithful ones.

Lie 8: “Don't worry, I will use a condom. It will be safe. I have got protection”. Answer: I have protection too, it is saying No, and it is 100% safe.

Added
Lie 1: I want only you
Lie2: I want to do this to only you
Lie 3: It is just you and me alone
Lie 4: it remains between us

Your Body is the temple of God keep it holy 
God detests sexual contact of any form 
Romans 12:1 I appeal to you, therefore, brothers by the mercies of God present your body as a living sacrifice.

How to Keep Yourself
•Pray against Temptation 1Matt 26:41
•Keep away from bad companies 1Cor 15:33
•Avoid late-night meetings with the opposite gender 1Cor 6:18
•Stay away from people that have negative intentions towards you. Prov 22:24-25
•Seek godly counsel! Prov 15:22

The above are common lies told to  people to lure them into Sexual immorality. Read this and digest it in order not to be a tool for immorality.  
The devil tries extremely hard to manipulate, do not be a victim! 
Perhaps you have fallen, this is a time for change. 

Read our previous devotional on how to manage the situation and keep being in line with God's word
Compiled by Peace NGDw



 

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